My Favourite Song

AKU DAN DIRIMU

Tiba saat nya kita saling bicara
Tentang perasaan yang kian menyiksa
Tentang rindu yg menggebu
Tentang cinta yang tak terungkap

Sudah terlalu lama kita berdua
Tenggelam dalam gelisah yang tak teredam
Memenuhi mimpi mimpi malam kita

Reff:

Duhai cintaku sayangku lepaskanlah
Perasaanmu rindumu sluruh cintamu
Dan kini hanya ada aku dan dirimu

Sesaat di keabadian

Jika sang waktu bisa kita hentikan
Dan sgala mimpi mimpi jadi kenyataan
Meleburkan semua batas
Antara kau dan aku…. kita


Anyway, it is not to late to wish,congratulations for the singer of this song,Bunga for his newly wed to Ashraf.

Taking Care of Yourself

To answer the question of how well you’re loving yourself, ask yourself the following question: Do you spend a lot of time focusing on other people’s problems? It’s much easier to focus on the problem of others than to deal with our own flaws.Maybe we look at others than to deal with our own flaws. Maybe we looks at other people’s problem because we are truly concerned with their well-being. Or we do it because we feel responsible for other people-more responsible, even than we feel for ourselves.If you develop a good, caring, honest relationship with yourself, you will be able to help others when they need it. When you take a good care of yourself and your emotional life, you allow others to see you as a model of self-love. You automatically pass it around If you want to have a positive influence on your friends or family, do it by setting an example through your own behaviour.

Collin Mortensen of Chicken Soup For The Soul.

Luna: Sometimes I do think I focus more to other’s people problem more than my own well being. True to say, I quite a caring person. I can’t help being so concern about others especially somebody who are very close to me. Nowadays, I have the feeling that I also need to take care my own self. If I don’t appreciate myself who else will appreciate me?

Yep, it is easy to look into other people problem and their flaws rather than our own imperfection.To look into yourself, you must see it through the mirror.The nearest mirror is your friend, try to see yourself from their eyes.You will get some input.


Yes, I do feel responsible towards my family,my friends and people around me.But as the time passed, I realized that as long as that person able to take care himself / herself ,no need for me to meddle into their own affairs.I have to look at myself now, whether I take a good care of myself and my emotional life.Only after I assured that I’m taking care of myself properly then I can give my best to others. I’m trying to be realistic.You see ya,if you yourself looks so vulnerable and disorganize how you gonna help others?That’s the idea.Yes, you can help others but not to the extent you deprive your own need. What I wanna do is I want to be fair to myself.

Furthermore, my friends always said to me: “We always think about others, but do they really care about us?” They got the point.Only appreciate people who appreciate us, forget about those who don’t.Life is too short and friends are too few.

Trying to be my own besfriend

Being a friend to yourself is as important as anything you will ever do. Things will instantly begin to improve for you. And the better friend you are to yourself, the better friend you will be to others. All in all, the end result of being good to yourself is more inner peace, self esteem and overall happiness.

Think of yourself as a friend. No one deserves to be treated with love and respect more than you do. In order to understand the concept of being a friend to yourself, think about how you act with your very best friend and then make a conscious effort to be that way with yourself. Be supportive, understanding, lighthearted and most important, when you make a mistake, be forgiving.

Remember that self esteem and being your own best friend are not the same as arrogance or selfishness. You know when you are being selfish, and you know when you are just taking care of yourself. Taking care of yourself feels good, whereas being selfish does not. The same is true with confidence. A confident person has no need to put others down. In fact, it is the confidence, self assured person who is supportive of others and wants them to succeed.

Kimberly Kirbeger from the book of Chicken Soup For The Soul.

Luna: My dear, will try to be your best friend. Will treat you with love and respect.
As kind and gentle I treat my bestfriends you also deserve the same treat.Will do what I have to do to make you happy and be very appreciative to you.You also deserve to be happy, I should take a good care of you.

What does besfriend do for his/her friend in need

All of sudden I feel so sad.So deep it enter my mind, body and soul.My body is also in pain.It is very unfortunate,2 things at the same time.

Quoted from today the stars newspaper, Mr. Razak Baginda answered when he have been asked what lesson he learnt from the ordeal.
“When you are down, you are basically alone.I still have family but when you are down, you are basically alone.”

It is true what he said. I have my family & my friends around but only me understand what I’ve been through. Look at my character, most people describe me as cheerful & a warm person. To really understand me, you don’t just look at the outside but look deep into my eyes .The eyes never lie. The eyes will tell what is inside.

Sometimes I blame myself. Do I love myself enough? Do I taking care myself enough? I realized that I should treat myself as my own best friend. And what best friend do for his/her very dear friend? Before you wanna love others you have to learn to love yourself first. That is the lesson.

The Sexiest Hunk

People names Jackman 'Sexiest Man Alive'
Published: Nov. 19, 2008 at 11:07 AM




Australian actor Hugh Jackman attends the fourth annual "A Fine Romance", a tribute to Hollywood and Broadway to benefit the Motion Picture and Television Fund in Culver City, California on November 8, 2008. (UPI Photo/Jim Ruymen)

NEW YORK, Nov. 19 (UPI) -- Australian actor Hugh Jackman has been named People magazine's Sexiest Man Alive for 2008.
The 40-year-old film star has played superhero Wolverine in the "X-Men" trilogy and won a Tony Award for his work in the stage musical "The Boy From Oz." He will next be seen opposite Nicole Kidman in the big-screen epic "Australia."
Kidman said she thinks Jackman, a married father of two, is a good choice for People's highest honor.
"Women's jaws drop when Hugh walks into a room," she told the magazine. "Hugh is tough and romantic at the same time. Australian men are a different breed. They're rugged and they sweat."
Deborra-Lee Furness, Jackman's wife of 12 years, said the actor may have a "body of doom," but insists she likes "what's inside."
Asked what his wife's reaction was when she heard he had been declared People's 2008 Sexiest Man Alive, Jackman recalled: "God bless her, she said, 'I could've told them that years ago!' And then she said, 'Obviously, Brad wasn't available this year.' And I said, 'That was a joke, right?'"
Brad Pitt, George Clooney and Matt Damon are some of People's previous Sexiest Man Alive title-holders.
The magazine's 2008 list of sexy men also includes Daniel Craig, Jon Hamm, Zac Efron, Robert Buckley, Blair Underwood, Ed Westwick, Michael Phelps, Javier Bardem, Blake Shelton, Lang Lang, Robert Pattinson, Joshua Jackson and Mark-Paul Gosselaar.
© 2008 United Press International, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

Luna: For me Mr. Jackman is the most macho Hollywood hero I’ve ever seen in the screen.The tough guy yet so romantic also.He has the charm. Nicol is right,women’s jaws will certainly drop whenever they see Mr. Wolverine.My jaw are are going to drop also.ahahahaha..Congrats,Hugh.

Lucky..

Jason Mraz Lyrics

Luna: This is really my fav song.So sweet -^_^- .You may call me,jiwang jiwangan.Whatever..I just enjoy the melody & lyrics.It is not all about the jiwang2 thingy, I must say that I also enjoy the beauty of the language.I’m once a literature student.I admire & appreciate fine lyrics & fine melody.For me music is a kind of therapy.


This song make me wanna have a best friend and fall in love with him.Jason + Colbie are the purrrrfect combination,their voice really suit each other.And I luv Jason Mraz.Yeahhh…

The Healing 3 Words

Dear friends & readers,

Speak it as frequent as you can to your loved ones,for they are powerful words.I would like to practice it and see how it works.Now, go & say it,see the miracle it brings.

I’LL BE THERE

If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night,to take a sick child to hospital,or when your car has a broken down some miles from home,you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase ‘‘ill be there’’.Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give.When we are truly present for other people,important things happen to them and us.We are renewed in love and friendship.We are restored emotionally and spiritually.Being there is at the very core of civility.

I MISS YOU

Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other “I miss you’’.This powerful affirmation tell partners they are wanted,needed,desired and loved.Consider how ecstatic you would feel,if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of workday just to say “I miss you”.

I RESPECT YOU

Respect is another way of showing love.Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal.If you talk to your children as if they were adilts you will strengthened the bonds and become close friends.This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

MAYBE YOU’RE RIGHT

This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions.The flip side to “maybe you’re right’’ is the humility of admitting “maybe I’m wrong”.Let’s face it.When you have a heated argument with someone ,all you do is cement the other point of view.They,or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you and them.Saying “maybe you’re right’’ can open the door to further explore the subject,in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rationale manner.

PLEASE FORGIVE ME

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit mistakes and ask for forgiveness.All of us are vulnerable to faults,foibles and failures.A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong ,which is saying,in other words,that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I THANK YOU

Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy.People who enjoy the companionship of good,close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted.They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness.On the other hands,people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

COUNT ON ME

Friend is one who walks in when others walk out.Loyalty is an essential ingredient for the true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people.Those that are rich in their relationship tend to be steady and true friends.When troubles come,a good friends is there indicating you can “count on me”.

LET ME HELP

The best of friends see a need and try to fill it.When they spot a hurt they do what they can do to heal it without being asked,they pitch in and help.

I UNDERSTAND YOU

People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them.Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them in so many little ways that you understand them is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship.

I LOVE YOU

Perhaps the most important 3 words that you can say.Telling someone that you can say.Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person’s deepest emotional needs;the need to belong,to feel appreciated and to be wanted.Your family,your friends and you,all need to need to hear 3 little words. “I love you” when spoken or conveyed,these statements have the power to forge new friendships,deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled.These 3 phrases can enrich every relationships.Use them!

Luna: sometimes people just want to hear those words.You may not know how important of those word to them.