Is This Love?

How do you know when you've found your soulmate?


One of the most common questions asked is "How do you know if it is really love?" Well, as you can imagine, this also happens to be one of the most difficult questions to answer! Love is such a strange, wonderful thing that nobody really has codified what it is yet. And to further complicate matters, there are so many different kinds of love: the love you feel for a friend, a family member, a sport or even a pet. This is such a crazy emotion that there is absolutely no way that I can definitively answer how you know it is love? but I am going to give it a try!

Now, in order to find out if you love someone, the basic place to start would be to ask yourself, do you want to be with them? If the answer to that question is no, then it really can't be love. When you love someone, you want to be with them. Not just be with them, but share everything with them. You have a great day at work and want to rush home and tell them every wonderful thing that has happened. You feel excited at the prospect of just being in their company, just being close to them isn't enough, you want to be a part of them, a part of their life forever. You can't stand the thought of being away from them yet, when you are, you still feel that ever-present bond that ties you together wherever you go. You can almost feel what they are feeling. You feel like, with a little bit of effort, you can see what they are seeing and think what they are thinking. That to me is love.

Now, on the other side of the spectrum, there are a host of emotions that people confuse with love. One of the most common is lust. There is a difference between wanting to sleep with someone and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone.

Being overly dependent on the other person is also not a part of love. Some people fall into the trap of thinking they love someone just because they are afraid to be alone. They have become dependent on the other person for so much that they don't know how to make it on their own, or they would much rather be with someone than no-one.

This leads to the old cliché, in order to love someone else, you must first learn to love yourself. Well, we've all heard that before, but what does it really mean? It means that you have to be confident in your own ability and your own judgement. You really have to like yourself and know what you have to offer another person. There is no way that you can love another person if you are so stuck in your own hang-ups that you bow down and propitiate to the other person. That is, you do anything they ask and agree with everything they say out of fear that they will love you less because you don't do those things.

Basically, the question of whether or not you are in love with someone is pretty cut and dry: you either are or you aren't? and deep down, you know the answer. You just have to trust yourself to recognize it.


Quoted from an article..

More Quizzes..

1. Do you like chinese food?
Depends on what kind of food.Of course I’m not gonna like bak kut teh..

2. How big is your bed?
Js enough space for me to sleep laaa..

3. Is your room clean?
Hahahaha..dunno 2 describe,u see by yourself laa..
4. Laptop or Desktop computer?
Both also can..

5. Favorite comedian?
Erkkk..don hv d answer till now..

6. Do you smoke?
No..

7. Does anyone like you?
Don’t ask me,ask people laaa..

8. Whats the sexiest thing about Condoleeza Rice?
Sorry,I can’t see anything sexy about her.

10. Sleep with or without clothes on?
With cloth..

11. Who sleeps with you every night?
Usually no one,I sleep alone..
12. Do long distance relationships work?
It never works to me.Too bad..

13. How many times have you been pulled over by the police?
Never..

14. Pancakes or French Toast?
Pancake,perhaps..

15. Do you like coffee?
Not really..

16. How do you like your eggs?
Telur mata kerbau


17. Do you believe in astrology?
Not really..

18. Last person you talked to on the phone?
Boy..

19. Last person on your missed call list?
Jaja

20. What was the last text message you received?
Aha nampaknya cmtu la.Sori ek n tengs sbb invite.

21. McDonalds or Burger King?
McD

22. Number of pillows?
3

23. Last thing you ate?
Rice + Chicken Soup

24. Last thing you bought?
A sandal

25. What are you listening to right now?
Ayat2 Cinta-Rossa

26. Pick a lyric?
Hey Ladies-Rossa

27. What kind of jelly do you like on your PB & J sandwich?
Hurmm..i don eat like tis..

28. Can you play pool?
Dunno how 2 play..

29. Do you know how to swim?
Yes..

30. Favorite ice cream?
Cornetto

31. Do you like maps?
To be frank I really having difficulty reading maps..

32. Tell me a random fact:
Random fact of what?????

33. Ever had a hard on at work?
Yepp..sometimes

34. Ever attend a theme party?
Yes..

35. Ever do a keg stand?
Wat’s tis???
36. Craziest place you've slept after a night of drinking?
I don’t drink..

37. What is your favorite season?
Spring..

38. What is the first music video you ever saw?
I can’t remember,next question pls..

39. Pick a movie quote:
You jump I jump-Titanic :)) =))

40. Favorite quote:
erkk..I think I already answer this question..

41. What is your favorite hangout?
My fav?? Midvalley

42. Best friend's name?
Midah,Bad,Ifa,Liza,Boy,& Ria

43. How long have you known them?
The time is different for each person.

44. Last time you laughed at something stupid?
Last nite,about so called ‘rebonding’ thing.

45. What time did you wake up this morning?
7.40 a.m

46. Wake up next to anyone?
Not at tis moment.Grrr..

47. Best thing about winter?
I never experience winter,sorry..

48. Name a couple of favorite colors:
Pink,blue,purple & green.


49. How old are you?
=100-62 + 10

50. What month is your birthday in?
The last one,December

51. Do you think pirates are cool or overrated?
Cool? I think it might be scarry laa…aiyooo..

52. Favorite Dave Matthews Band song (if you have one?)
I’m not listening to his song,sorry..

53. What are you doing this weekend?
Celebrating Eid with my family & friends.

54. Who will take this survey?
Ila,ned & kui

Quiz..Quiz..

My dear,ria..

As your request,i completed this quiz.Hope you'll be satisfied.


1.Apekah pengangkutan yang anda gemari untuk bercuti?

Tak kisahlah ape2,kete,bas,ketapi,flight.Yg sesuai mengikut keadaanlah..


2. Dalam seminggu, berapa kali anda kerap lupa tentang sesuatu?

Banyak kali gak la,skang sy mcm semakin pelupa je.huhu



3. Harijadi siapa kah yang anda mampu ingat?

Skang dh selalu lupa,so js wat reminder kt hp jela stiap kali.Besday sendiri pun leh lupa kadang2.tp selalunya sy akan ingat besday org yg rapat dgn sy,my family members,my bestie,my bf (sekiranya sy ade ke bf la :)) )




4. Boleh berikan sebab?

Mereka orang tersyg sy,so mesti la sy ingat.



5. Jika diberi peluang mengundurkan masa, adakah anda akan cuba memperbetulkan keadaan?

Ya....




6. Kenapa?

Mo tebus kesilapan yg telah sy wat


7. Secara kiraan kasar, berapa umur kah usia blog anda?

Dalam 10 bulan gitu laa..





8. Siapakah rakan blog yang anda mahu mereka buat tag ni?

Ila,ned & kui..Sila jawab ar :)) :))

Ya atau Tidak..

Adakah orang di sekeliling anda membuat anda selesa?
Ya

Adakah orang yang mahu menemani anda makan?
Ya,sentiasa ada..

Adakah anda tahu (paling kurang) 2 orang yang anda berasa aman dengannya?
Ya

Adakah anda senang menghabiskan waktu sendirian?
Ya

Jika anda bermasalah, apakah anda memiliki teman untuk berbincang?
Ya,ada..

Adakah anda gemar membangggakan teman anda?
Ya,sememangnya..

Adakah anda memiliki teman baru tahun lalu?
Tidak..

Jawapan bagi soalan di atas samada YA atau TIDAK sahaja. Jika anda memiliki lebih dari 3 jawapan TIDAK, anda mungkin sedang kesepian tanpa anda sedari. Jangan khuatir, bangunkan hubungan sosial lama atau baru dengan menghantarkan tag ini kepada lebih dari 3 orang teman.


Ok,za..aku dah jwb sumer soalan kuiz ni walaupun tak faham pun apekah tujuannye..huhu

Bintang Kehidupan..

Bintang Kehidupan-Ronnie & Yanti Ariyanto



Jenuh aku Mendengar
Manisnya Kata Cinta
Lebih Baik Sendiri
Bukannya Sekali
Seringku Mencoba
Namun Kugagal Lagi

Mungkin Nasib Ini
Suratan Tanganku
Harus Tabah Menjalani

Jauh Sudah Melangkah
Menyusuri Hidupku
Yang Penuh Tanda Tanya

Kadang Hati Bimbang
Menentukan Sikapku
Tiada Tempat Mengadu

Hanya Iman Di Dada
Yang Membuatku Mampu
Slalu Tabah Menjalani

Reff #

Malam Malam aku Sendiri
Tanpa Cintamu Lagi Ohoh Hoho
Hanya Satu Keyakinanku
Bintang Kan Bersinar
Menerpa Hidupku
Bahagia Kan Datang Oh Oh




Lagu ini adalah lagu kegemaranku.Bila dengar saja lagu ni aku pasti akan teringatkan seseorang,lagu ini juga adalah lagu kegemarannya.Malangnya dia sudah tiada lagi..

A-Z

As you wish,za I would complete this quiz..


A. Attached or single? single & available
I’m not married yet nor do I tied the knot with anybody ,so I consider myself as single laa..

B. Best Friend? Yes..i do have best friends
Life is bored without my bestie

C. Cake or Pie? Cake and it must be blueberry cake.yummyy..

D. Day of choice? Friday

E. Essential Item(s)? My handphone,my car,my glasses & my watch

F. Favorite color? Blue,pink & green

G. Gummy bears or worms? None of them..

H. Hometown? Parit Buntar

I. Favorite Indulgence? I would say creamy food..Grrrr..

J. January or July? January..

K. Kids? Ya..hopefully I’ll be blessed with some kids.

L. Life isn’t complete without?
People around me..

M. Marriage date? Don’t have any idea yet..somebody please tell me..hahaha

N. Number of magazine subscriptions. I don’t subscript to any mags but usually I read CLEO.

O. Oranges or Apples? Orange..i not really fond of apple

P. Phobias? Jambatan gantung..

Q. Quotes? Don’t worry be happy!

R. Reasons to smile? Because I smile back to someone who first smiling at me..muehehehe

S. Season Of Choice? Spring, where the plants will start to grow..it is very nice view I think..

T. Tag five people/groupDon wan 2 tag anyone,can i? huhuhu..

U. Unknown fact about me? Because it is unknown therefore I think it is better to be unknown forever.miahahaha..

V. Vegetable? Pineapple,bean sprout,any green vegetables would be js fine..

Worst Habit? Erk..i would say sometimes I like to procrastinate things..not good haa?

X. X Ray or Ultrasound? Me, to be frank I hate to do all of these check up..

Y. Your favorite foods? I would list down some:
-Kuewteow kungfu
-Mee bandung
-ABC
-Fruit juices

Z. Zodiac sign? Sagittarius

Then..again..

I'm hurt but i pretend i'm not..
What i wanna do most at this time is to protect myself.
Enough..i don wan to feel the PAIN again.
Can I? I'll try my best.
I'm the one who should take a good care of myself.
I wanna be my own best friend.
Ya,KERANA DIRIKU BEGITU BERHARGA.