Want to know something.Kawan aku kadang2 ada tanya nape ko selalunya cool je,contonhya bila naik kete dgn lelaki,dia sesat jalan & bawak meronda2 dulu ke mana ntah.Tak pernah lak aku nk marah2 & membebel.I must said that, you must understand men’s character.Dulu aku pun macam tu gak,kalau dh sesat tu mulalah tak senang,mesti nak soh orang tu turun pegi tanya orang.Tetapi,percayalah lelaki selalunya takkan turun dulu.Dia akan pusing2 cari sampai dapat dulu,kalau dh tak jumpa sgt baru dia akan tanya org.Aku dah biasa.
Sy membaca buku psikologi yer tentang lelaki.From the books Men are from Mars,Women Are From Venus: men value power,competency, efficiency,and achievement.To look capable and competence is very useful to them.Jika sesat sekejap pun biar je,let him solve the problem.He is a man,he wanna look capable in front of you girls.
To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn’t know what to do or that he can’t do it on his own.Men are very touchy about this ,because the issue of competence is so very important to them.
Sekarang sy sudah faham sbb tu sy malas nk ckp banyak.Kalau ko membebel dan bagi suggestion ingat diaorng leh terima ke.Memburukkan keadaan jer karang.Mulalah akan berperang mulut.Keadaan akan mejadi tegang pulak.Dia mesti nk settle cara dia jugak.So lebih baik diam & tengok jer cara dia selesaikan.Diaorang kalau mmg betul2 perlukan pertolongan dia akan minta nnti.Selagi dia belum minta tu maknanya dia masih ok & boleh settle sendiri.So relaks dan tengokkan je dulu.Perempuan lain mesti tak setuju dgn cara aku ni.Hahahaha..Mesti tau bila masanya patut bersuara dan bila masa tidak.Bukannya aku jenis yg diam jer.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Love myth..
Dear readers,
Luna would like to talk about some love myth. Love is not just about some lovey dovey thingy all the time, we need to face the reality.
Love myth: True love conquers all
Reality: Love is not enough to make relationship work-it needs compatibility and commitment.
Luna: Common perception : I love you & you love me,that’s enough.Not enough actually.True love need greater commitment and lots of time.Everything has a process rite? One more thing, no matter how much you love that person if you both lack of compatibility and chemistry,it still won’t work.Please don’t waste your time.Find someone that’s more compatible.
Love myth:Love at the first sight
Reality: It takes just a moment to experience crush with someone,but true love takes time.
Luna: I never believe at love at the first sight.I never had such experience.To me we need to get to know the person very well before we gonna like him/her.So I suppose, I believe at love at 9th or 10th sight maybe.Hahaha..You must be watching too much romantic story if you believe on this.
Love myth: Love is blind
Reality: You the one who is blind
Luna: I don’t believe on this also.You have been blessed with your rationale.You can differentiate between good and bad thing.Right or wrong.Don’t be over cloud with your emotion till you have the wrong judgement.Be practical ok.
If I have an option I rather opt to have my best friend as the love of my life.It is very practical I think.Hehehehe
Luna would like to talk about some love myth. Love is not just about some lovey dovey thingy all the time, we need to face the reality.
Love myth: True love conquers all
Reality: Love is not enough to make relationship work-it needs compatibility and commitment.
Luna: Common perception : I love you & you love me,that’s enough.Not enough actually.True love need greater commitment and lots of time.Everything has a process rite? One more thing, no matter how much you love that person if you both lack of compatibility and chemistry,it still won’t work.Please don’t waste your time.Find someone that’s more compatible.
Love myth:Love at the first sight
Reality: It takes just a moment to experience crush with someone,but true love takes time.
Luna: I never believe at love at the first sight.I never had such experience.To me we need to get to know the person very well before we gonna like him/her.So I suppose, I believe at love at 9th or 10th sight maybe.Hahaha..You must be watching too much romantic story if you believe on this.
Love myth: Love is blind
Reality: You the one who is blind
Luna: I don’t believe on this also.You have been blessed with your rationale.You can differentiate between good and bad thing.Right or wrong.Don’t be over cloud with your emotion till you have the wrong judgement.Be practical ok.
If I have an option I rather opt to have my best friend as the love of my life.It is very practical I think.Hehehehe
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Al-Fatihah
Aku sangat mengantuk pagi ni.Drive pun dalam keadaan mengantuk.Semalam,aku tidur tak berapa nyenyak.Asyik sekejap2 terjaga,sekejap terjaga.Lepas tu badan jadi sgt letih sbb menangis & sgt sedih.Aku sgt terkejut,kejutan ini masih belum hilang.I need some time to be alone for a while.Aku teringat semua perkara,dari hari pertama aku mengenali abg ipar aku sehinggalah kali terakhir aku melihat dia di bilik mayat.Itulah kali petama aku memasuki bilik mayat.Rasa macam nak sakit jantung ketika mula2 nak masuk dalam tu.Aku mengurut2 dadaku.Aku seolah2 masih tidak percaya yg abg dikin sudah meninggal.Kini aku terpaksa berdepan dgn realiti,melihat mayatnya.
Mujur kak tess menemani aku masuk,sempat lihat sekejap sahaja sbb org dah nk mandikan dia.Memang dia,mmg itu adalah abg dikin.Now, I have to accept the reality.Sedikit-sedikit aku baru nak menerima,badan aku sebenarnya dah rasa lain
macam.Aku merasa badan aku dah seram sejuk.Aku tak nangis lagi masa tu,masih boleh layan kak tess sembang2.Aku tengok kakak aku,berpakaian serba hitam.Berjubah hitam & memakai kacamata hitam.Akak aku sebenarnya menyembunyikan segala kesedihannya disebalik pakaiannya itu.Orang tak nampak matanya yg bengkak disebabkan banyak menangis di sebalik kacamata hitam dia itu.Anyway,walau macammana pun akak aku masih boleh bertahan.She is a tough girl,even tougher than me.The girls born in my family all have this character.Aku sgt susah nk menangis depan org,aku selalunya menangis hanya ketika aku berseorangan.Itu bukan bermakna aku tidak sedih,aku menangis di dalam hati.Kalau aku menangis meraung di depan akak aku,mestilah dia lagi sedih.Dia pulak yg kena tenangkan aku karang,sepatutnya aku yg support dia.
Sekali lagi aku masuk ke bilik mayat bersama akak aku untuk menjirus air ke atas jenazah.Kali ini aku dapat melihatnya mayat abg dikin secara keseluruhan.Aku tak sanggup tengok lama2.I’m afraid I’ll broke down.Tak dapat digambarkan perasaan aku ketika itu.Tangan aku terketar2 ketika menjirus air ke atas jenazah arwah.Perasaan ketika berada di bilik mayat itu mmg tidak dapat digambarkan.Dengan baunya yg agak aneh sedikit,bau kapur barus rasenya.Sesiapa yg lemah semangat mmg tidak digalakkan masuk rasanya.Aku sempat melihat jenazah disembahyangkan di situ.Jenazah kemudiannya di bawa pulang ke kampung halaman abg dikin di Kg Gajah,Perak untuk disemadikan.Kak long dan mak & abah sudah berada di sana rasanya.
Aku tidak boleh bersembahyang,jadi tidak dapatlah membaca yasin utk arwah.Aku cuma sedekahkan al-Fatihah utk arwah tetapi diniatkan sebagai zikir ketika membacanya.Bukannya org yg ma’zurah tidak boleh membaca ayat al-Quran langsung,ada sesetengah ayat boleh dibaca tapi diniatkan sbg zikir.Itu bapa aku yg beritahu.Sepanjang malam tadi aku sangat sedih.Aku berbalas sms dgn liza,kemudiannya menelefon dia.Dalam telefon pun boleh menangis lagi bila ceritakan ttg arwah.Rupanya dia mahu lakukan sesuatu untuk akak aku sebelum dia pergi.Bila teringat tentang itu aku tak dapat menahan sebak.Arwah memanggil aku dgn panggilan ‘baby’.Rahsia aku pecah selepas ally menghantar kad raya ke rumah aku dgn menulis nama tu.Semenjak itu dia panggil aku dgn panggilan tu.Akibat asyik menangis mungkin badan aku terasa letih, kemudiannya aku tertidur.
Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atas arwah dan ditempatkan bersama-sama orang yang beriman.Al-Fatihah..
Mujur kak tess menemani aku masuk,sempat lihat sekejap sahaja sbb org dah nk mandikan dia.Memang dia,mmg itu adalah abg dikin.Now, I have to accept the reality.Sedikit-sedikit aku baru nak menerima,badan aku sebenarnya dah rasa lain
macam.Aku merasa badan aku dah seram sejuk.Aku tak nangis lagi masa tu,masih boleh layan kak tess sembang2.Aku tengok kakak aku,berpakaian serba hitam.Berjubah hitam & memakai kacamata hitam.Akak aku sebenarnya menyembunyikan segala kesedihannya disebalik pakaiannya itu.Orang tak nampak matanya yg bengkak disebabkan banyak menangis di sebalik kacamata hitam dia itu.Anyway,walau macammana pun akak aku masih boleh bertahan.She is a tough girl,even tougher than me.The girls born in my family all have this character.Aku sgt susah nk menangis depan org,aku selalunya menangis hanya ketika aku berseorangan.Itu bukan bermakna aku tidak sedih,aku menangis di dalam hati.Kalau aku menangis meraung di depan akak aku,mestilah dia lagi sedih.Dia pulak yg kena tenangkan aku karang,sepatutnya aku yg support dia.
Sekali lagi aku masuk ke bilik mayat bersama akak aku untuk menjirus air ke atas jenazah.Kali ini aku dapat melihatnya mayat abg dikin secara keseluruhan.Aku tak sanggup tengok lama2.I’m afraid I’ll broke down.Tak dapat digambarkan perasaan aku ketika itu.Tangan aku terketar2 ketika menjirus air ke atas jenazah arwah.Perasaan ketika berada di bilik mayat itu mmg tidak dapat digambarkan.Dengan baunya yg agak aneh sedikit,bau kapur barus rasenya.Sesiapa yg lemah semangat mmg tidak digalakkan masuk rasanya.Aku sempat melihat jenazah disembahyangkan di situ.Jenazah kemudiannya di bawa pulang ke kampung halaman abg dikin di Kg Gajah,Perak untuk disemadikan.Kak long dan mak & abah sudah berada di sana rasanya.
Aku tidak boleh bersembahyang,jadi tidak dapatlah membaca yasin utk arwah.Aku cuma sedekahkan al-Fatihah utk arwah tetapi diniatkan sebagai zikir ketika membacanya.Bukannya org yg ma’zurah tidak boleh membaca ayat al-Quran langsung,ada sesetengah ayat boleh dibaca tapi diniatkan sbg zikir.Itu bapa aku yg beritahu.Sepanjang malam tadi aku sangat sedih.Aku berbalas sms dgn liza,kemudiannya menelefon dia.Dalam telefon pun boleh menangis lagi bila ceritakan ttg arwah.Rupanya dia mahu lakukan sesuatu untuk akak aku sebelum dia pergi.Bila teringat tentang itu aku tak dapat menahan sebak.Arwah memanggil aku dgn panggilan ‘baby’.Rahsia aku pecah selepas ally menghantar kad raya ke rumah aku dgn menulis nama tu.Semenjak itu dia panggil aku dgn panggilan tu.Akibat asyik menangis mungkin badan aku terasa letih, kemudiannya aku tertidur.
Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atas arwah dan ditempatkan bersama-sama orang yang beriman.Al-Fatihah..
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Happy is a choice!
The first thing that ifa,my best friend said when she see me last time was “you look happy.”I said really,dear? Then we hugged each other.
Scarlett O’hara, the foremost character in the classic ‘Gone With The Wind’, believed that only one thing would make her happy-becoming Mrs. Ashley Wilkes.When Ashley married another woman, Scarlett set out to make his life miserable and in the process,she made her own life miserable.Rather than swallow her disappointment and make the best of things,she threw her happiness away with both hands.
Sure,happiness is an emotion,but it is also a choice.You can choose to be happy rather than sad,optimistic rather than pessimistic,or hopeful rather than doubtful.In that regard at least,no one can steal your happiness-it is yours to do with as you please.
To embrace happiness,you must first let go of misery.
Quoted from one book.
I do like the movie,Gone With The Wind starring the charming Omar Sharrif.
Yes, for me to happiness is a choice. Happiness can be learned. First, identify what are the things that can make you happy.Then,go for it.
The skill is very important you know, to ensure your excellent health. Healthy I mean, physically and emotionally. Ill soul can lead to the ill body.They are related.When your souls is sick it takes time sometimes to be cure depend how strong the person is.In some cases it never cure at all, as the result that particular person suffer emotional flaw.First and foremost you must let go your past.
Scarlett O’hara, the foremost character in the classic ‘Gone With The Wind’, believed that only one thing would make her happy-becoming Mrs. Ashley Wilkes.When Ashley married another woman, Scarlett set out to make his life miserable and in the process,she made her own life miserable.Rather than swallow her disappointment and make the best of things,she threw her happiness away with both hands.
Sure,happiness is an emotion,but it is also a choice.You can choose to be happy rather than sad,optimistic rather than pessimistic,or hopeful rather than doubtful.In that regard at least,no one can steal your happiness-it is yours to do with as you please.
To embrace happiness,you must first let go of misery.
Quoted from one book.
I do like the movie,Gone With The Wind starring the charming Omar Sharrif.
Yes, for me to happiness is a choice. Happiness can be learned. First, identify what are the things that can make you happy.Then,go for it.
The skill is very important you know, to ensure your excellent health. Healthy I mean, physically and emotionally. Ill soul can lead to the ill body.They are related.When your souls is sick it takes time sometimes to be cure depend how strong the person is.In some cases it never cure at all, as the result that particular person suffer emotional flaw.First and foremost you must let go your past.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Such a sad story..
On last Sunday I attended ‘Save The Palestinians’ Campaign organized by COMPLETE (Coalition of Malaysian NGOS Against Persecution of Paletinians).Among the speakers are Tun Dr. Mahathir Mohamad (former Prime Minister) and Dr. Chandra Muzaffar (President of JUST Movement).Sis Nurul Izzah (Lembah Pantai MP) and Malaysian artist Sheila Majid did show up to show their support.
What I concluded from the talk is that the war is not about religion.I mean between Hebrew people and Muslim but it is merely about OCCUPATION and SURVIVAL.It has nothing to do about religion.The Jews need a land for their survival,for their wellbeing, to ensure the continuity of their offspring .British promised to give the land to the Jews but at the end they’ve failed to deliver the promise. They made somebody else paid for their bill.The innocent Palestinians paid the price. Not for a month or short period of time but FOREVER.The Jews occupation of Palestine started 60 years ago and never ended until today.
I don’t have a heart to see the in the news, everyday,there will be someone who was dead.Blood is everywhere.School and building collapse as the result of explosive bomb.Chilren crying because of injuries and lost of their parents.This reality made me sick.I feel the pain also.This is the biggest abuse of human right and the biggest holocaust on earth.
However, please keep in mind that Palestinian is the most resilient and tough people. They won’t surrender. They won’t back off, even this war has to last for thousand years.They will never give up their very own land.Therefore, we also have to be consistent in supporting for their struggle and their fighting.Do your own part.The less you can do is pray.Please pray for your dear brothers and sisters.
What I concluded from the talk is that the war is not about religion.I mean between Hebrew people and Muslim but it is merely about OCCUPATION and SURVIVAL.It has nothing to do about religion.The Jews need a land for their survival,for their wellbeing, to ensure the continuity of their offspring .British promised to give the land to the Jews but at the end they’ve failed to deliver the promise. They made somebody else paid for their bill.The innocent Palestinians paid the price. Not for a month or short period of time but FOREVER.The Jews occupation of Palestine started 60 years ago and never ended until today.
I don’t have a heart to see the in the news, everyday,there will be someone who was dead.Blood is everywhere.School and building collapse as the result of explosive bomb.Chilren crying because of injuries and lost of their parents.This reality made me sick.I feel the pain also.This is the biggest abuse of human right and the biggest holocaust on earth.
However, please keep in mind that Palestinian is the most resilient and tough people. They won’t surrender. They won’t back off, even this war has to last for thousand years.They will never give up their very own land.Therefore, we also have to be consistent in supporting for their struggle and their fighting.Do your own part.The less you can do is pray.Please pray for your dear brothers and sisters.
Friday, January 9, 2009
Old friend is gold,the new one is silver..
Wanna go..don wanna go..anyway,it is very hard to refuse to your dear bestfriend whom you didn’t meet for quiet a long time.I miss her dearly.Today also her birthday.Shouldn’t let her down on her birthday I suppose.Okay, maybe this is the time for me to have a get away with my old buddies.We meet 8 years ago & this friendship still remain strong until today.Nowadays, it is very hard to find a true friend,so if you meet one,do take a good care of him/her and don’t let him/her go away.Keep in touch.
Kenapa org selalu amik pot pasal hal yg remeh temeh.Sy tidak,sy betul2 dah tak larat nk amik tau pasal hal yg tdk mendtgkan faedah & menambah dos ubat sakit kepala sy .Org nk wat ape,org nk jd ape biarlah diaorg.Itu hidup & mati dia,sy tarak mau msk campur.Sukatik dia la,dh hidup dia.Jgn kacau sy sudah.Cumanya kamu perlu jadi bijak sikit,kdg2 org suka bermain,mcm2 permainan.Kamu cuma perlu tau bezakan antara seorang jujur & seorang yg penipu.Sifat org yg munafik:
1)Bila berbalah dia melampau batasan
2)Bila bercakap dia menipu
3) Bila berjanji,dia mungkir janji
Jadi jauhilah org yg bersifat macam tu,pasti hidup kamu akan aman sikit.That’s all.Hidup kamu adalah pilihan kamu.Kamu boleh pilih ape yg kamu nk jadi.Jika pilih utk bahagia,berbahagialah jadinya jika pilih sebaliknya maka akan jadi sebaliknyalah.Just you have to live life to the fullest.
Kenapa org selalu amik pot pasal hal yg remeh temeh.Sy tidak,sy betul2 dah tak larat nk amik tau pasal hal yg tdk mendtgkan faedah & menambah dos ubat sakit kepala sy .Org nk wat ape,org nk jd ape biarlah diaorg.Itu hidup & mati dia,sy tarak mau msk campur.Sukatik dia la,dh hidup dia.Jgn kacau sy sudah.Cumanya kamu perlu jadi bijak sikit,kdg2 org suka bermain,mcm2 permainan.Kamu cuma perlu tau bezakan antara seorang jujur & seorang yg penipu.Sifat org yg munafik:
1)Bila berbalah dia melampau batasan
2)Bila bercakap dia menipu
3) Bila berjanji,dia mungkir janji
Jadi jauhilah org yg bersifat macam tu,pasti hidup kamu akan aman sikit.That’s all.Hidup kamu adalah pilihan kamu.Kamu boleh pilih ape yg kamu nk jadi.Jika pilih utk bahagia,berbahagialah jadinya jika pilih sebaliknya maka akan jadi sebaliknyalah.Just you have to live life to the fullest.
Friday, January 2, 2009
Bye..bye..bye..
(Hey, Hey)
Bye, Bye, Bye
Bye, Bye...
Bye, Bye...
Oh, Oh..
I'm doin' this tonight,
You're probably gonna start a fight.
I know this can't be right.
Hey baby come on,
I loved you endlessly,
When you weren't there for me.
So now it's time to leave and make it alone
I know that I can't take no more
It ain't no lie
I wanna see you out that door
Baby, bye, bye, bye...
Bye Bye
Don't wanna be a fool for you
Just another player in your game for two
You may hate me but it ain't no lie,
Baby, bye, bye, bye...
Bye Bye
Don't really wanna make it tough,
I just wanna tell you that I had enough.
It might sound crazy,
But it ain't no lie,
Baby, bye, bye, bye
(Oh, Oh)
Just hit me with the truth,
Now, girl you're more than welcome to.
So give me one good reason,
Baby come on
I live for you and me,
And now I really come to see,
That life would be much better once you're gone.
I know that I can't take no more
It ain't no lie,
I wanna see you out that door
Baby, bye, bye, bye...
Bye Bye
Don't wanna be a fool for you
Just another player in your game for two
You may hate me but it ain't no lie,
Baby Bye, bye, bye...
Bye Bye
Don't really wanna make it tough,
I just wanna tell you that I had enough (ooh ooh)
It might sound crazy,
But it ain't no lie,
Baby, bye, bye, bye
I'm giving up I know for sure
I don't wanna be the reason for your love no more
Bye Bye
I'm checkin' out
I'm signin' off
Don't wanna be the loser and I've had enough
Don't wanna be your fool
In this game for two
So I'm leavin' you behind
Bye, bye, bye...
I don't wanna make it tough (wanna make it tough)
But I had enough
And it ain't no lie (Bye, bye baby...)
Bye, Bye
Don't wanna be a fool for you
Just another player in your game for two (I don't wanna be your fool)
But it ain't no lie
Baby bye, bye, bye...
Don't really wanna make it tough (don't really wanna make it tough),
I just wanna tell you that I had enough (that I had enough).
Might sound crazy,
But it ain't no lie,
Bye, bye, bye
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