Bulan Disember pun sudah hampir berakhir.Tahun 2009 akan menutup tirainya.Disember adalah bulan yang aku gemari sebab aku dilahirkan di dalam bulan ni,lagipun bulan ni adalah penutup.Mcm ala2 closing ceremonylah kiranya kan.
Birthday aku tahun ni takdelah aku organize bday party,no budget for this year.Too many bills to be paid.Aku just celebrate dgn cara aku yg tersendiri jelah,eating ice cream with my dear friends..Yummy.. surprisingly my friends did some of sweet things in which I really appreciate.Pagi2 lagi kwn lama aku si hanizaida tu dah call wish happy birthday.Tak sangka dia ingat lak birthday aku.It really cheer me up.I feel so good.Hani mmg tak pernah lupakan aku.Kadang2 aku jer rase cam tak bagus sbb dia jer yg rajin contact aku dari aku contact dia.
Si liza pulak masa pagi2 tu soh aku bukan radio yg on9 tu.Beria2 betul nih.Heran la gak aku kan.Aku mmg buka tp takde bunyi la plak.Masalah teknikal ape la plak kan.So aku bgtaulah dia,takde bunyi & aku tak dpt dgr pun.Ohh rupanye dia ade wat ucapan hepi birthday & ade tujukan lagu utk aku.Dia siap rakam lagi.So sweet..Lagu Bintang Kehidupan lak tu.my fav song.Thank you so much I really appreciate it..Liza,aku mmg tak sangka ko akan wat mcm ni.muehehehe..
Then another hani lak tepon,wish me hepi besday dgn suara ceria dia tu.Gelak2 je sgt ceria.Actually I kind of miss that laughter.Dia dulu pernah kate boleh jer sponsor kek blueberry masa bday aku nnti,so aku pun tuntut la janji tu.Miahaha..Aku mmg sgt suka kek blueberry.Tapi hani dear,bie sempat rase sket je kek tu sbb dah terkocoh2 nk balik,bos sudah panggil.Timasih kt hani & Kak Ana sbb belikan kek tu.Timasih gak sbb tlg organize my bday party & jaja sekali.
Celebration belum berakhir kt situ je,then ade piknik2 kt sg congkak.Jaja cyg,timakasih lah utk hadiah baju & tepung gomak tu.Muahahaha..Belum sempat aku letak barang lg sudah ditepung tawar.Habis kotor seluar bersih aku.Tp dah tak boleh buat ape.Sumer pun dah jd mcm giler tepung ari tu.Sepatutnya sy bawak tepung sy sendiri ari 2,so bolehlah sy balas dendam balik.Tp ade ke birthday girl sndiri yg bwk tepung.Bunyinye mcm nk mentepungkan diri sendiri la plak.
Timasih sumer kwn2 yg dtg sekali celebrate besday sy.Tak sangka ade gak org ingat kat aku.I’m so touch..HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010..
Hope to start this new year with a bang:D
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Is This Love?
How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
One of the most common questions asked is "How do you know if it is really love?" Well, as you can imagine, this also happens to be one of the most difficult questions to answer! Love is such a strange, wonderful thing that nobody really has codified what it is yet. And to further complicate matters, there are so many different kinds of love: the love you feel for a friend, a family member, a sport or even a pet. This is such a crazy emotion that there is absolutely no way that I can definitively answer how you know it is love? but I am going to give it a try!
Now, in order to find out if you love someone, the basic place to start would be to ask yourself, do you want to be with them? If the answer to that question is no, then it really can't be love. When you love someone, you want to be with them. Not just be with them, but share everything with them. You have a great day at work and want to rush home and tell them every wonderful thing that has happened. You feel excited at the prospect of just being in their company, just being close to them isn't enough, you want to be a part of them, a part of their life forever. You can't stand the thought of being away from them yet, when you are, you still feel that ever-present bond that ties you together wherever you go. You can almost feel what they are feeling. You feel like, with a little bit of effort, you can see what they are seeing and think what they are thinking. That to me is love.
Now, on the other side of the spectrum, there are a host of emotions that people confuse with love. One of the most common is lust. There is a difference between wanting to sleep with someone and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone.
Being overly dependent on the other person is also not a part of love. Some people fall into the trap of thinking they love someone just because they are afraid to be alone. They have become dependent on the other person for so much that they don't know how to make it on their own, or they would much rather be with someone than no-one.
This leads to the old cliché, in order to love someone else, you must first learn to love yourself. Well, we've all heard that before, but what does it really mean? It means that you have to be confident in your own ability and your own judgement. You really have to like yourself and know what you have to offer another person. There is no way that you can love another person if you are so stuck in your own hang-ups that you bow down and propitiate to the other person. That is, you do anything they ask and agree with everything they say out of fear that they will love you less because you don't do those things.
Basically, the question of whether or not you are in love with someone is pretty cut and dry: you either are or you aren't? and deep down, you know the answer. You just have to trust yourself to recognize it.
Quoted from an article..
One of the most common questions asked is "How do you know if it is really love?" Well, as you can imagine, this also happens to be one of the most difficult questions to answer! Love is such a strange, wonderful thing that nobody really has codified what it is yet. And to further complicate matters, there are so many different kinds of love: the love you feel for a friend, a family member, a sport or even a pet. This is such a crazy emotion that there is absolutely no way that I can definitively answer how you know it is love? but I am going to give it a try!
Now, in order to find out if you love someone, the basic place to start would be to ask yourself, do you want to be with them? If the answer to that question is no, then it really can't be love. When you love someone, you want to be with them. Not just be with them, but share everything with them. You have a great day at work and want to rush home and tell them every wonderful thing that has happened. You feel excited at the prospect of just being in their company, just being close to them isn't enough, you want to be a part of them, a part of their life forever. You can't stand the thought of being away from them yet, when you are, you still feel that ever-present bond that ties you together wherever you go. You can almost feel what they are feeling. You feel like, with a little bit of effort, you can see what they are seeing and think what they are thinking. That to me is love.
Now, on the other side of the spectrum, there are a host of emotions that people confuse with love. One of the most common is lust. There is a difference between wanting to sleep with someone and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone.
Being overly dependent on the other person is also not a part of love. Some people fall into the trap of thinking they love someone just because they are afraid to be alone. They have become dependent on the other person for so much that they don't know how to make it on their own, or they would much rather be with someone than no-one.
This leads to the old cliché, in order to love someone else, you must first learn to love yourself. Well, we've all heard that before, but what does it really mean? It means that you have to be confident in your own ability and your own judgement. You really have to like yourself and know what you have to offer another person. There is no way that you can love another person if you are so stuck in your own hang-ups that you bow down and propitiate to the other person. That is, you do anything they ask and agree with everything they say out of fear that they will love you less because you don't do those things.
Basically, the question of whether or not you are in love with someone is pretty cut and dry: you either are or you aren't? and deep down, you know the answer. You just have to trust yourself to recognize it.
Quoted from an article..
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