Bulan Disember pun sudah hampir berakhir.Tahun 2009 akan menutup tirainya.Disember adalah bulan yang aku gemari sebab aku dilahirkan di dalam bulan ni,lagipun bulan ni adalah penutup.Mcm ala2 closing ceremonylah kiranya kan.
Birthday aku tahun ni takdelah aku organize bday party,no budget for this year.Too many bills to be paid.Aku just celebrate dgn cara aku yg tersendiri jelah,eating ice cream with my dear friends..Yummy.. surprisingly my friends did some of sweet things in which I really appreciate.Pagi2 lagi kwn lama aku si hanizaida tu dah call wish happy birthday.Tak sangka dia ingat lak birthday aku.It really cheer me up.I feel so good.Hani mmg tak pernah lupakan aku.Kadang2 aku jer rase cam tak bagus sbb dia jer yg rajin contact aku dari aku contact dia.
Si liza pulak masa pagi2 tu soh aku bukan radio yg on9 tu.Beria2 betul nih.Heran la gak aku kan.Aku mmg buka tp takde bunyi la plak.Masalah teknikal ape la plak kan.So aku bgtaulah dia,takde bunyi & aku tak dpt dgr pun.Ohh rupanye dia ade wat ucapan hepi birthday & ade tujukan lagu utk aku.Dia siap rakam lagi.So sweet..Lagu Bintang Kehidupan lak tu.my fav song.Thank you so much I really appreciate it..Liza,aku mmg tak sangka ko akan wat mcm ni.muehehehe..
Then another hani lak tepon,wish me hepi besday dgn suara ceria dia tu.Gelak2 je sgt ceria.Actually I kind of miss that laughter.Dia dulu pernah kate boleh jer sponsor kek blueberry masa bday aku nnti,so aku pun tuntut la janji tu.Miahaha..Aku mmg sgt suka kek blueberry.Tapi hani dear,bie sempat rase sket je kek tu sbb dah terkocoh2 nk balik,bos sudah panggil.Timasih kt hani & Kak Ana sbb belikan kek tu.Timasih gak sbb tlg organize my bday party & jaja sekali.
Celebration belum berakhir kt situ je,then ade piknik2 kt sg congkak.Jaja cyg,timakasih lah utk hadiah baju & tepung gomak tu.Muahahaha..Belum sempat aku letak barang lg sudah ditepung tawar.Habis kotor seluar bersih aku.Tp dah tak boleh buat ape.Sumer pun dah jd mcm giler tepung ari tu.Sepatutnya sy bawak tepung sy sendiri ari 2,so bolehlah sy balas dendam balik.Tp ade ke birthday girl sndiri yg bwk tepung.Bunyinye mcm nk mentepungkan diri sendiri la plak.
Timasih sumer kwn2 yg dtg sekali celebrate besday sy.Tak sangka ade gak org ingat kat aku.I’m so touch..HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010..
Hope to start this new year with a bang:D
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Is This Love?
How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
One of the most common questions asked is "How do you know if it is really love?" Well, as you can imagine, this also happens to be one of the most difficult questions to answer! Love is such a strange, wonderful thing that nobody really has codified what it is yet. And to further complicate matters, there are so many different kinds of love: the love you feel for a friend, a family member, a sport or even a pet. This is such a crazy emotion that there is absolutely no way that I can definitively answer how you know it is love? but I am going to give it a try!
Now, in order to find out if you love someone, the basic place to start would be to ask yourself, do you want to be with them? If the answer to that question is no, then it really can't be love. When you love someone, you want to be with them. Not just be with them, but share everything with them. You have a great day at work and want to rush home and tell them every wonderful thing that has happened. You feel excited at the prospect of just being in their company, just being close to them isn't enough, you want to be a part of them, a part of their life forever. You can't stand the thought of being away from them yet, when you are, you still feel that ever-present bond that ties you together wherever you go. You can almost feel what they are feeling. You feel like, with a little bit of effort, you can see what they are seeing and think what they are thinking. That to me is love.
Now, on the other side of the spectrum, there are a host of emotions that people confuse with love. One of the most common is lust. There is a difference between wanting to sleep with someone and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone.
Being overly dependent on the other person is also not a part of love. Some people fall into the trap of thinking they love someone just because they are afraid to be alone. They have become dependent on the other person for so much that they don't know how to make it on their own, or they would much rather be with someone than no-one.
This leads to the old cliché, in order to love someone else, you must first learn to love yourself. Well, we've all heard that before, but what does it really mean? It means that you have to be confident in your own ability and your own judgement. You really have to like yourself and know what you have to offer another person. There is no way that you can love another person if you are so stuck in your own hang-ups that you bow down and propitiate to the other person. That is, you do anything they ask and agree with everything they say out of fear that they will love you less because you don't do those things.
Basically, the question of whether or not you are in love with someone is pretty cut and dry: you either are or you aren't? and deep down, you know the answer. You just have to trust yourself to recognize it.
Quoted from an article..
One of the most common questions asked is "How do you know if it is really love?" Well, as you can imagine, this also happens to be one of the most difficult questions to answer! Love is such a strange, wonderful thing that nobody really has codified what it is yet. And to further complicate matters, there are so many different kinds of love: the love you feel for a friend, a family member, a sport or even a pet. This is such a crazy emotion that there is absolutely no way that I can definitively answer how you know it is love? but I am going to give it a try!
Now, in order to find out if you love someone, the basic place to start would be to ask yourself, do you want to be with them? If the answer to that question is no, then it really can't be love. When you love someone, you want to be with them. Not just be with them, but share everything with them. You have a great day at work and want to rush home and tell them every wonderful thing that has happened. You feel excited at the prospect of just being in their company, just being close to them isn't enough, you want to be a part of them, a part of their life forever. You can't stand the thought of being away from them yet, when you are, you still feel that ever-present bond that ties you together wherever you go. You can almost feel what they are feeling. You feel like, with a little bit of effort, you can see what they are seeing and think what they are thinking. That to me is love.
Now, on the other side of the spectrum, there are a host of emotions that people confuse with love. One of the most common is lust. There is a difference between wanting to sleep with someone and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone.
Being overly dependent on the other person is also not a part of love. Some people fall into the trap of thinking they love someone just because they are afraid to be alone. They have become dependent on the other person for so much that they don't know how to make it on their own, or they would much rather be with someone than no-one.
This leads to the old cliché, in order to love someone else, you must first learn to love yourself. Well, we've all heard that before, but what does it really mean? It means that you have to be confident in your own ability and your own judgement. You really have to like yourself and know what you have to offer another person. There is no way that you can love another person if you are so stuck in your own hang-ups that you bow down and propitiate to the other person. That is, you do anything they ask and agree with everything they say out of fear that they will love you less because you don't do those things.
Basically, the question of whether or not you are in love with someone is pretty cut and dry: you either are or you aren't? and deep down, you know the answer. You just have to trust yourself to recognize it.
Quoted from an article..
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
More Quizzes..
1. Do you like chinese food?
Depends on what kind of food.Of course I’m not gonna like bak kut teh..
2. How big is your bed?
Js enough space for me to sleep laaa..
3. Is your room clean?
Hahahaha..dunno 2 describe,u see by yourself laa..
4. Laptop or Desktop computer?
Both also can..
5. Favorite comedian?
Erkkk..don hv d answer till now..
6. Do you smoke?
No..
7. Does anyone like you?
Don’t ask me,ask people laaa..
8. Whats the sexiest thing about Condoleeza Rice?
Sorry,I can’t see anything sexy about her.
10. Sleep with or without clothes on?
With cloth..
11. Who sleeps with you every night?
Usually no one,I sleep alone..
12. Do long distance relationships work?
It never works to me.Too bad..
13. How many times have you been pulled over by the police?
Never..
14. Pancakes or French Toast?
Pancake,perhaps..
15. Do you like coffee?
Not really..
16. How do you like your eggs?
Telur mata kerbau
17. Do you believe in astrology?
Not really..
18. Last person you talked to on the phone?
Boy..
19. Last person on your missed call list?
Jaja
20. What was the last text message you received?
Aha nampaknya cmtu la.Sori ek n tengs sbb invite.
21. McDonalds or Burger King?
McD
22. Number of pillows?
3
23. Last thing you ate?
Rice + Chicken Soup
24. Last thing you bought?
A sandal
25. What are you listening to right now?
Ayat2 Cinta-Rossa
26. Pick a lyric?
Hey Ladies-Rossa
27. What kind of jelly do you like on your PB & J sandwich?
Hurmm..i don eat like tis..
28. Can you play pool?
Dunno how 2 play..
29. Do you know how to swim?
Yes..
30. Favorite ice cream?
Cornetto
31. Do you like maps?
To be frank I really having difficulty reading maps..
32. Tell me a random fact:
Random fact of what?????
33. Ever had a hard on at work?
Yepp..sometimes
34. Ever attend a theme party?
Yes..
35. Ever do a keg stand?
Wat’s tis???
36. Craziest place you've slept after a night of drinking?
I don’t drink..
37. What is your favorite season?
Spring..
38. What is the first music video you ever saw?
I can’t remember,next question pls..
39. Pick a movie quote:
You jump I jump-Titanic :)) =))
40. Favorite quote:
erkk..I think I already answer this question..
41. What is your favorite hangout?
My fav?? Midvalley
42. Best friend's name?
Midah,Bad,Ifa,Liza,Boy,& Ria
43. How long have you known them?
The time is different for each person.
44. Last time you laughed at something stupid?
Last nite,about so called ‘rebonding’ thing.
45. What time did you wake up this morning?
7.40 a.m
46. Wake up next to anyone?
Not at tis moment.Grrr..
47. Best thing about winter?
I never experience winter,sorry..
48. Name a couple of favorite colors:
Pink,blue,purple & green.
49. How old are you?
=100-62 + 10
50. What month is your birthday in?
The last one,December
51. Do you think pirates are cool or overrated?
Cool? I think it might be scarry laa…aiyooo..
52. Favorite Dave Matthews Band song (if you have one?)
I’m not listening to his song,sorry..
53. What are you doing this weekend?
Celebrating Eid with my family & friends.
54. Who will take this survey?
Ila,ned & kui
Depends on what kind of food.Of course I’m not gonna like bak kut teh..
2. How big is your bed?
Js enough space for me to sleep laaa..
3. Is your room clean?
Hahahaha..dunno 2 describe,u see by yourself laa..
4. Laptop or Desktop computer?
Both also can..
5. Favorite comedian?
Erkkk..don hv d answer till now..
6. Do you smoke?
No..
7. Does anyone like you?
Don’t ask me,ask people laaa..
8. Whats the sexiest thing about Condoleeza Rice?
Sorry,I can’t see anything sexy about her.
10. Sleep with or without clothes on?
With cloth..
11. Who sleeps with you every night?
Usually no one,I sleep alone..
12. Do long distance relationships work?
It never works to me.Too bad..
13. How many times have you been pulled over by the police?
Never..
14. Pancakes or French Toast?
Pancake,perhaps..
15. Do you like coffee?
Not really..
16. How do you like your eggs?
Telur mata kerbau
17. Do you believe in astrology?
Not really..
18. Last person you talked to on the phone?
Boy..
19. Last person on your missed call list?
Jaja
20. What was the last text message you received?
Aha nampaknya cmtu la.Sori ek n tengs sbb invite.
21. McDonalds or Burger King?
McD
22. Number of pillows?
3
23. Last thing you ate?
Rice + Chicken Soup
24. Last thing you bought?
A sandal
25. What are you listening to right now?
Ayat2 Cinta-Rossa
26. Pick a lyric?
Hey Ladies-Rossa
27. What kind of jelly do you like on your PB & J sandwich?
Hurmm..i don eat like tis..
28. Can you play pool?
Dunno how 2 play..
29. Do you know how to swim?
Yes..
30. Favorite ice cream?
Cornetto
31. Do you like maps?
To be frank I really having difficulty reading maps..
32. Tell me a random fact:
Random fact of what?????
33. Ever had a hard on at work?
Yepp..sometimes
34. Ever attend a theme party?
Yes..
35. Ever do a keg stand?
Wat’s tis???
36. Craziest place you've slept after a night of drinking?
I don’t drink..
37. What is your favorite season?
Spring..
38. What is the first music video you ever saw?
I can’t remember,next question pls..
39. Pick a movie quote:
You jump I jump-Titanic :)) =))
40. Favorite quote:
erkk..I think I already answer this question..
41. What is your favorite hangout?
My fav?? Midvalley
42. Best friend's name?
Midah,Bad,Ifa,Liza,Boy,& Ria
43. How long have you known them?
The time is different for each person.
44. Last time you laughed at something stupid?
Last nite,about so called ‘rebonding’ thing.
45. What time did you wake up this morning?
7.40 a.m
46. Wake up next to anyone?
Not at tis moment.Grrr..
47. Best thing about winter?
I never experience winter,sorry..
48. Name a couple of favorite colors:
Pink,blue,purple & green.
49. How old are you?
=100-62 + 10
50. What month is your birthday in?
The last one,December
51. Do you think pirates are cool or overrated?
Cool? I think it might be scarry laa…aiyooo..
52. Favorite Dave Matthews Band song (if you have one?)
I’m not listening to his song,sorry..
53. What are you doing this weekend?
Celebrating Eid with my family & friends.
54. Who will take this survey?
Ila,ned & kui
Monday, September 14, 2009
Quiz..Quiz..
My dear,ria..
As your request,i completed this quiz.Hope you'll be satisfied.
1.Apekah pengangkutan yang anda gemari untuk bercuti?
Tak kisahlah ape2,kete,bas,ketapi,flight.Yg sesuai mengikut keadaanlah..
2. Dalam seminggu, berapa kali anda kerap lupa tentang sesuatu?
Banyak kali gak la,skang sy mcm semakin pelupa je.huhu
3. Harijadi siapa kah yang anda mampu ingat?
Skang dh selalu lupa,so js wat reminder kt hp jela stiap kali.Besday sendiri pun leh lupa kadang2.tp selalunya sy akan ingat besday org yg rapat dgn sy,my family members,my bestie,my bf (sekiranya sy ade ke bf la :)) )
4. Boleh berikan sebab?
Mereka orang tersyg sy,so mesti la sy ingat.
5. Jika diberi peluang mengundurkan masa, adakah anda akan cuba memperbetulkan keadaan?
Ya....
6. Kenapa?
Mo tebus kesilapan yg telah sy wat
7. Secara kiraan kasar, berapa umur kah usia blog anda?
Dalam 10 bulan gitu laa..
8. Siapakah rakan blog yang anda mahu mereka buat tag ni?
Ila,ned & kui..Sila jawab ar :)) :))
As your request,i completed this quiz.Hope you'll be satisfied.
1.Apekah pengangkutan yang anda gemari untuk bercuti?
Tak kisahlah ape2,kete,bas,ketapi,flight.Yg sesuai mengikut keadaanlah..
2. Dalam seminggu, berapa kali anda kerap lupa tentang sesuatu?
Banyak kali gak la,skang sy mcm semakin pelupa je.huhu
3. Harijadi siapa kah yang anda mampu ingat?
Skang dh selalu lupa,so js wat reminder kt hp jela stiap kali.Besday sendiri pun leh lupa kadang2.tp selalunya sy akan ingat besday org yg rapat dgn sy,my family members,my bestie,my bf (sekiranya sy ade ke bf la :)) )
4. Boleh berikan sebab?
Mereka orang tersyg sy,so mesti la sy ingat.
5. Jika diberi peluang mengundurkan masa, adakah anda akan cuba memperbetulkan keadaan?
Ya....
6. Kenapa?
Mo tebus kesilapan yg telah sy wat
7. Secara kiraan kasar, berapa umur kah usia blog anda?
Dalam 10 bulan gitu laa..
8. Siapakah rakan blog yang anda mahu mereka buat tag ni?
Ila,ned & kui..Sila jawab ar :)) :))
Friday, August 28, 2009
Ya atau Tidak..
Adakah orang di sekeliling anda membuat anda selesa?
Ya
Adakah orang yang mahu menemani anda makan?
Ya,sentiasa ada..
Adakah anda tahu (paling kurang) 2 orang yang anda berasa aman dengannya?
Ya
Adakah anda senang menghabiskan waktu sendirian?
Ya
Jika anda bermasalah, apakah anda memiliki teman untuk berbincang?
Ya,ada..
Adakah anda gemar membangggakan teman anda?
Ya,sememangnya..
Adakah anda memiliki teman baru tahun lalu?
Tidak..
Jawapan bagi soalan di atas samada YA atau TIDAK sahaja. Jika anda memiliki lebih dari 3 jawapan TIDAK, anda mungkin sedang kesepian tanpa anda sedari. Jangan khuatir, bangunkan hubungan sosial lama atau baru dengan menghantarkan tag ini kepada lebih dari 3 orang teman.
Ok,za..aku dah jwb sumer soalan kuiz ni walaupun tak faham pun apekah tujuannye..huhu
Ya
Adakah orang yang mahu menemani anda makan?
Ya,sentiasa ada..
Adakah anda tahu (paling kurang) 2 orang yang anda berasa aman dengannya?
Ya
Adakah anda senang menghabiskan waktu sendirian?
Ya
Jika anda bermasalah, apakah anda memiliki teman untuk berbincang?
Ya,ada..
Adakah anda gemar membangggakan teman anda?
Ya,sememangnya..
Adakah anda memiliki teman baru tahun lalu?
Tidak..
Jawapan bagi soalan di atas samada YA atau TIDAK sahaja. Jika anda memiliki lebih dari 3 jawapan TIDAK, anda mungkin sedang kesepian tanpa anda sedari. Jangan khuatir, bangunkan hubungan sosial lama atau baru dengan menghantarkan tag ini kepada lebih dari 3 orang teman.
Ok,za..aku dah jwb sumer soalan kuiz ni walaupun tak faham pun apekah tujuannye..huhu
Bintang Kehidupan..
Bintang Kehidupan-Ronnie & Yanti Ariyanto
Jenuh aku Mendengar
Manisnya Kata Cinta
Lebih Baik Sendiri
Bukannya Sekali
Seringku Mencoba
Namun Kugagal Lagi
Mungkin Nasib Ini
Suratan Tanganku
Harus Tabah Menjalani
Jauh Sudah Melangkah
Menyusuri Hidupku
Yang Penuh Tanda Tanya
Kadang Hati Bimbang
Menentukan Sikapku
Tiada Tempat Mengadu
Hanya Iman Di Dada
Yang Membuatku Mampu
Slalu Tabah Menjalani
Reff #
Malam Malam aku Sendiri
Tanpa Cintamu Lagi Ohoh Hoho
Hanya Satu Keyakinanku
Bintang Kan Bersinar
Menerpa Hidupku
Bahagia Kan Datang Oh Oh
Lagu ini adalah lagu kegemaranku.Bila dengar saja lagu ni aku pasti akan teringatkan seseorang,lagu ini juga adalah lagu kegemarannya.Malangnya dia sudah tiada lagi..
Jenuh aku Mendengar
Manisnya Kata Cinta
Lebih Baik Sendiri
Bukannya Sekali
Seringku Mencoba
Namun Kugagal Lagi
Mungkin Nasib Ini
Suratan Tanganku
Harus Tabah Menjalani
Jauh Sudah Melangkah
Menyusuri Hidupku
Yang Penuh Tanda Tanya
Kadang Hati Bimbang
Menentukan Sikapku
Tiada Tempat Mengadu
Hanya Iman Di Dada
Yang Membuatku Mampu
Slalu Tabah Menjalani
Reff #
Malam Malam aku Sendiri
Tanpa Cintamu Lagi Ohoh Hoho
Hanya Satu Keyakinanku
Bintang Kan Bersinar
Menerpa Hidupku
Bahagia Kan Datang Oh Oh
Lagu ini adalah lagu kegemaranku.Bila dengar saja lagu ni aku pasti akan teringatkan seseorang,lagu ini juga adalah lagu kegemarannya.Malangnya dia sudah tiada lagi..
A-Z
As you wish,za I would complete this quiz..
A. Attached or single? single & available
I’m not married yet nor do I tied the knot with anybody ,so I consider myself as single laa..
B. Best Friend? Yes..i do have best friends
Life is bored without my bestie
C. Cake or Pie? Cake and it must be blueberry cake.yummyy..
D. Day of choice? Friday
E. Essential Item(s)? My handphone,my car,my glasses & my watch
F. Favorite color? Blue,pink & green
G. Gummy bears or worms? None of them..
H. Hometown? Parit Buntar
I. Favorite Indulgence? I would say creamy food..Grrrr..
J. January or July? January..
K. Kids? Ya..hopefully I’ll be blessed with some kids.
L. Life isn’t complete without?
People around me..
M. Marriage date? Don’t have any idea yet..somebody please tell me..hahaha
N. Number of magazine subscriptions. I don’t subscript to any mags but usually I read CLEO.
O. Oranges or Apples? Orange..i not really fond of apple
P. Phobias? Jambatan gantung..
Q. Quotes? Don’t worry be happy!
R. Reasons to smile? Because I smile back to someone who first smiling at me..muehehehe
S. Season Of Choice? Spring, where the plants will start to grow..it is very nice view I think..
T. Tag five people/groupDon wan 2 tag anyone,can i? huhuhu..
U. Unknown fact about me? Because it is unknown therefore I think it is better to be unknown forever.miahahaha..
V. Vegetable? Pineapple,bean sprout,any green vegetables would be js fine..
Worst Habit? Erk..i would say sometimes I like to procrastinate things..not good haa?
X. X Ray or Ultrasound? Me, to be frank I hate to do all of these check up..
Y. Your favorite foods? I would list down some:
-Kuewteow kungfu
-Mee bandung
-ABC
-Fruit juices
Z. Zodiac sign? Sagittarius
A. Attached or single? single & available
I’m not married yet nor do I tied the knot with anybody ,so I consider myself as single laa..
B. Best Friend? Yes..i do have best friends
Life is bored without my bestie
C. Cake or Pie? Cake and it must be blueberry cake.yummyy..
D. Day of choice? Friday
E. Essential Item(s)? My handphone,my car,my glasses & my watch
F. Favorite color? Blue,pink & green
G. Gummy bears or worms? None of them..
H. Hometown? Parit Buntar
I. Favorite Indulgence? I would say creamy food..Grrrr..
J. January or July? January..
K. Kids? Ya..hopefully I’ll be blessed with some kids.
L. Life isn’t complete without?
People around me..
M. Marriage date? Don’t have any idea yet..somebody please tell me..hahaha
N. Number of magazine subscriptions. I don’t subscript to any mags but usually I read CLEO.
O. Oranges or Apples? Orange..i not really fond of apple
P. Phobias? Jambatan gantung..
Q. Quotes? Don’t worry be happy!
R. Reasons to smile? Because I smile back to someone who first smiling at me..muehehehe
S. Season Of Choice? Spring, where the plants will start to grow..it is very nice view I think..
T. Tag five people/groupDon wan 2 tag anyone,can i? huhuhu..
U. Unknown fact about me? Because it is unknown therefore I think it is better to be unknown forever.miahahaha..
V. Vegetable? Pineapple,bean sprout,any green vegetables would be js fine..
Worst Habit? Erk..i would say sometimes I like to procrastinate things..not good haa?
X. X Ray or Ultrasound? Me, to be frank I hate to do all of these check up..
Y. Your favorite foods? I would list down some:
-Kuewteow kungfu
-Mee bandung
-ABC
-Fruit juices
Z. Zodiac sign? Sagittarius
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Then..again..
I'm hurt but i pretend i'm not..
What i wanna do most at this time is to protect myself.
Enough..i don wan to feel the PAIN again.
Can I? I'll try my best.
I'm the one who should take a good care of myself.
I wanna be my own best friend.
Ya,KERANA DIRIKU BEGITU BERHARGA.
What i wanna do most at this time is to protect myself.
Enough..i don wan to feel the PAIN again.
Can I? I'll try my best.
I'm the one who should take a good care of myself.
I wanna be my own best friend.
Ya,KERANA DIRIKU BEGITU BERHARGA.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Men are from Mars,Women Are From Venus
Want to know something.Kawan aku kadang2 ada tanya nape ko selalunya cool je,contonhya bila naik kete dgn lelaki,dia sesat jalan & bawak meronda2 dulu ke mana ntah.Tak pernah lak aku nk marah2 & membebel.I must said that, you must understand men’s character.Dulu aku pun macam tu gak,kalau dh sesat tu mulalah tak senang,mesti nak soh orang tu turun pegi tanya orang.Tetapi,percayalah lelaki selalunya takkan turun dulu.Dia akan pusing2 cari sampai dapat dulu,kalau dh tak jumpa sgt baru dia akan tanya org.Aku dah biasa.
Sy membaca buku psikologi yer tentang lelaki.From the books Men are from Mars,Women Are From Venus: men value power,competency, efficiency,and achievement.To look capable and competence is very useful to them.Jika sesat sekejap pun biar je,let him solve the problem.He is a man,he wanna look capable in front of you girls.
To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn’t know what to do or that he can’t do it on his own.Men are very touchy about this ,because the issue of competence is so very important to them.
Sekarang sy sudah faham sbb tu sy malas nk ckp banyak.Kalau ko membebel dan bagi suggestion ingat diaorng leh terima ke.Memburukkan keadaan jer karang.Mulalah akan berperang mulut.Keadaan akan mejadi tegang pulak.Dia mesti nk settle cara dia jugak.So lebih baik diam & tengok jer cara dia selesaikan.Diaorang kalau mmg betul2 perlukan pertolongan dia akan minta nnti.Selagi dia belum minta tu maknanya dia masih ok & boleh settle sendiri.So relaks dan tengokkan je dulu.Perempuan lain mesti tak setuju dgn cara aku ni.Hahahaha..Mesti tau bila masanya patut bersuara dan bila masa tidak.Bukannya aku jenis yg diam jer.
Sy membaca buku psikologi yer tentang lelaki.From the books Men are from Mars,Women Are From Venus: men value power,competency, efficiency,and achievement.To look capable and competence is very useful to them.Jika sesat sekejap pun biar je,let him solve the problem.He is a man,he wanna look capable in front of you girls.
To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn’t know what to do or that he can’t do it on his own.Men are very touchy about this ,because the issue of competence is so very important to them.
Sekarang sy sudah faham sbb tu sy malas nk ckp banyak.Kalau ko membebel dan bagi suggestion ingat diaorng leh terima ke.Memburukkan keadaan jer karang.Mulalah akan berperang mulut.Keadaan akan mejadi tegang pulak.Dia mesti nk settle cara dia jugak.So lebih baik diam & tengok jer cara dia selesaikan.Diaorang kalau mmg betul2 perlukan pertolongan dia akan minta nnti.Selagi dia belum minta tu maknanya dia masih ok & boleh settle sendiri.So relaks dan tengokkan je dulu.Perempuan lain mesti tak setuju dgn cara aku ni.Hahahaha..Mesti tau bila masanya patut bersuara dan bila masa tidak.Bukannya aku jenis yg diam jer.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Love myth..
Dear readers,
Luna would like to talk about some love myth. Love is not just about some lovey dovey thingy all the time, we need to face the reality.
Love myth: True love conquers all
Reality: Love is not enough to make relationship work-it needs compatibility and commitment.
Luna: Common perception : I love you & you love me,that’s enough.Not enough actually.True love need greater commitment and lots of time.Everything has a process rite? One more thing, no matter how much you love that person if you both lack of compatibility and chemistry,it still won’t work.Please don’t waste your time.Find someone that’s more compatible.
Love myth:Love at the first sight
Reality: It takes just a moment to experience crush with someone,but true love takes time.
Luna: I never believe at love at the first sight.I never had such experience.To me we need to get to know the person very well before we gonna like him/her.So I suppose, I believe at love at 9th or 10th sight maybe.Hahaha..You must be watching too much romantic story if you believe on this.
Love myth: Love is blind
Reality: You the one who is blind
Luna: I don’t believe on this also.You have been blessed with your rationale.You can differentiate between good and bad thing.Right or wrong.Don’t be over cloud with your emotion till you have the wrong judgement.Be practical ok.
If I have an option I rather opt to have my best friend as the love of my life.It is very practical I think.Hehehehe
Luna would like to talk about some love myth. Love is not just about some lovey dovey thingy all the time, we need to face the reality.
Love myth: True love conquers all
Reality: Love is not enough to make relationship work-it needs compatibility and commitment.
Luna: Common perception : I love you & you love me,that’s enough.Not enough actually.True love need greater commitment and lots of time.Everything has a process rite? One more thing, no matter how much you love that person if you both lack of compatibility and chemistry,it still won’t work.Please don’t waste your time.Find someone that’s more compatible.
Love myth:Love at the first sight
Reality: It takes just a moment to experience crush with someone,but true love takes time.
Luna: I never believe at love at the first sight.I never had such experience.To me we need to get to know the person very well before we gonna like him/her.So I suppose, I believe at love at 9th or 10th sight maybe.Hahaha..You must be watching too much romantic story if you believe on this.
Love myth: Love is blind
Reality: You the one who is blind
Luna: I don’t believe on this also.You have been blessed with your rationale.You can differentiate between good and bad thing.Right or wrong.Don’t be over cloud with your emotion till you have the wrong judgement.Be practical ok.
If I have an option I rather opt to have my best friend as the love of my life.It is very practical I think.Hehehehe
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Al-Fatihah
Aku sangat mengantuk pagi ni.Drive pun dalam keadaan mengantuk.Semalam,aku tidur tak berapa nyenyak.Asyik sekejap2 terjaga,sekejap terjaga.Lepas tu badan jadi sgt letih sbb menangis & sgt sedih.Aku sgt terkejut,kejutan ini masih belum hilang.I need some time to be alone for a while.Aku teringat semua perkara,dari hari pertama aku mengenali abg ipar aku sehinggalah kali terakhir aku melihat dia di bilik mayat.Itulah kali petama aku memasuki bilik mayat.Rasa macam nak sakit jantung ketika mula2 nak masuk dalam tu.Aku mengurut2 dadaku.Aku seolah2 masih tidak percaya yg abg dikin sudah meninggal.Kini aku terpaksa berdepan dgn realiti,melihat mayatnya.
Mujur kak tess menemani aku masuk,sempat lihat sekejap sahaja sbb org dah nk mandikan dia.Memang dia,mmg itu adalah abg dikin.Now, I have to accept the reality.Sedikit-sedikit aku baru nak menerima,badan aku sebenarnya dah rasa lain
macam.Aku merasa badan aku dah seram sejuk.Aku tak nangis lagi masa tu,masih boleh layan kak tess sembang2.Aku tengok kakak aku,berpakaian serba hitam.Berjubah hitam & memakai kacamata hitam.Akak aku sebenarnya menyembunyikan segala kesedihannya disebalik pakaiannya itu.Orang tak nampak matanya yg bengkak disebabkan banyak menangis di sebalik kacamata hitam dia itu.Anyway,walau macammana pun akak aku masih boleh bertahan.She is a tough girl,even tougher than me.The girls born in my family all have this character.Aku sgt susah nk menangis depan org,aku selalunya menangis hanya ketika aku berseorangan.Itu bukan bermakna aku tidak sedih,aku menangis di dalam hati.Kalau aku menangis meraung di depan akak aku,mestilah dia lagi sedih.Dia pulak yg kena tenangkan aku karang,sepatutnya aku yg support dia.
Sekali lagi aku masuk ke bilik mayat bersama akak aku untuk menjirus air ke atas jenazah.Kali ini aku dapat melihatnya mayat abg dikin secara keseluruhan.Aku tak sanggup tengok lama2.I’m afraid I’ll broke down.Tak dapat digambarkan perasaan aku ketika itu.Tangan aku terketar2 ketika menjirus air ke atas jenazah arwah.Perasaan ketika berada di bilik mayat itu mmg tidak dapat digambarkan.Dengan baunya yg agak aneh sedikit,bau kapur barus rasenya.Sesiapa yg lemah semangat mmg tidak digalakkan masuk rasanya.Aku sempat melihat jenazah disembahyangkan di situ.Jenazah kemudiannya di bawa pulang ke kampung halaman abg dikin di Kg Gajah,Perak untuk disemadikan.Kak long dan mak & abah sudah berada di sana rasanya.
Aku tidak boleh bersembahyang,jadi tidak dapatlah membaca yasin utk arwah.Aku cuma sedekahkan al-Fatihah utk arwah tetapi diniatkan sebagai zikir ketika membacanya.Bukannya org yg ma’zurah tidak boleh membaca ayat al-Quran langsung,ada sesetengah ayat boleh dibaca tapi diniatkan sbg zikir.Itu bapa aku yg beritahu.Sepanjang malam tadi aku sangat sedih.Aku berbalas sms dgn liza,kemudiannya menelefon dia.Dalam telefon pun boleh menangis lagi bila ceritakan ttg arwah.Rupanya dia mahu lakukan sesuatu untuk akak aku sebelum dia pergi.Bila teringat tentang itu aku tak dapat menahan sebak.Arwah memanggil aku dgn panggilan ‘baby’.Rahsia aku pecah selepas ally menghantar kad raya ke rumah aku dgn menulis nama tu.Semenjak itu dia panggil aku dgn panggilan tu.Akibat asyik menangis mungkin badan aku terasa letih, kemudiannya aku tertidur.
Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atas arwah dan ditempatkan bersama-sama orang yang beriman.Al-Fatihah..
Mujur kak tess menemani aku masuk,sempat lihat sekejap sahaja sbb org dah nk mandikan dia.Memang dia,mmg itu adalah abg dikin.Now, I have to accept the reality.Sedikit-sedikit aku baru nak menerima,badan aku sebenarnya dah rasa lain
macam.Aku merasa badan aku dah seram sejuk.Aku tak nangis lagi masa tu,masih boleh layan kak tess sembang2.Aku tengok kakak aku,berpakaian serba hitam.Berjubah hitam & memakai kacamata hitam.Akak aku sebenarnya menyembunyikan segala kesedihannya disebalik pakaiannya itu.Orang tak nampak matanya yg bengkak disebabkan banyak menangis di sebalik kacamata hitam dia itu.Anyway,walau macammana pun akak aku masih boleh bertahan.She is a tough girl,even tougher than me.The girls born in my family all have this character.Aku sgt susah nk menangis depan org,aku selalunya menangis hanya ketika aku berseorangan.Itu bukan bermakna aku tidak sedih,aku menangis di dalam hati.Kalau aku menangis meraung di depan akak aku,mestilah dia lagi sedih.Dia pulak yg kena tenangkan aku karang,sepatutnya aku yg support dia.
Sekali lagi aku masuk ke bilik mayat bersama akak aku untuk menjirus air ke atas jenazah.Kali ini aku dapat melihatnya mayat abg dikin secara keseluruhan.Aku tak sanggup tengok lama2.I’m afraid I’ll broke down.Tak dapat digambarkan perasaan aku ketika itu.Tangan aku terketar2 ketika menjirus air ke atas jenazah arwah.Perasaan ketika berada di bilik mayat itu mmg tidak dapat digambarkan.Dengan baunya yg agak aneh sedikit,bau kapur barus rasenya.Sesiapa yg lemah semangat mmg tidak digalakkan masuk rasanya.Aku sempat melihat jenazah disembahyangkan di situ.Jenazah kemudiannya di bawa pulang ke kampung halaman abg dikin di Kg Gajah,Perak untuk disemadikan.Kak long dan mak & abah sudah berada di sana rasanya.
Aku tidak boleh bersembahyang,jadi tidak dapatlah membaca yasin utk arwah.Aku cuma sedekahkan al-Fatihah utk arwah tetapi diniatkan sebagai zikir ketika membacanya.Bukannya org yg ma’zurah tidak boleh membaca ayat al-Quran langsung,ada sesetengah ayat boleh dibaca tapi diniatkan sbg zikir.Itu bapa aku yg beritahu.Sepanjang malam tadi aku sangat sedih.Aku berbalas sms dgn liza,kemudiannya menelefon dia.Dalam telefon pun boleh menangis lagi bila ceritakan ttg arwah.Rupanya dia mahu lakukan sesuatu untuk akak aku sebelum dia pergi.Bila teringat tentang itu aku tak dapat menahan sebak.Arwah memanggil aku dgn panggilan ‘baby’.Rahsia aku pecah selepas ally menghantar kad raya ke rumah aku dgn menulis nama tu.Semenjak itu dia panggil aku dgn panggilan tu.Akibat asyik menangis mungkin badan aku terasa letih, kemudiannya aku tertidur.
Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atas arwah dan ditempatkan bersama-sama orang yang beriman.Al-Fatihah..
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Happy is a choice!
The first thing that ifa,my best friend said when she see me last time was “you look happy.”I said really,dear? Then we hugged each other.
Scarlett O’hara, the foremost character in the classic ‘Gone With The Wind’, believed that only one thing would make her happy-becoming Mrs. Ashley Wilkes.When Ashley married another woman, Scarlett set out to make his life miserable and in the process,she made her own life miserable.Rather than swallow her disappointment and make the best of things,she threw her happiness away with both hands.
Sure,happiness is an emotion,but it is also a choice.You can choose to be happy rather than sad,optimistic rather than pessimistic,or hopeful rather than doubtful.In that regard at least,no one can steal your happiness-it is yours to do with as you please.
To embrace happiness,you must first let go of misery.
Quoted from one book.
I do like the movie,Gone With The Wind starring the charming Omar Sharrif.
Yes, for me to happiness is a choice. Happiness can be learned. First, identify what are the things that can make you happy.Then,go for it.
The skill is very important you know, to ensure your excellent health. Healthy I mean, physically and emotionally. Ill soul can lead to the ill body.They are related.When your souls is sick it takes time sometimes to be cure depend how strong the person is.In some cases it never cure at all, as the result that particular person suffer emotional flaw.First and foremost you must let go your past.
Scarlett O’hara, the foremost character in the classic ‘Gone With The Wind’, believed that only one thing would make her happy-becoming Mrs. Ashley Wilkes.When Ashley married another woman, Scarlett set out to make his life miserable and in the process,she made her own life miserable.Rather than swallow her disappointment and make the best of things,she threw her happiness away with both hands.
Sure,happiness is an emotion,but it is also a choice.You can choose to be happy rather than sad,optimistic rather than pessimistic,or hopeful rather than doubtful.In that regard at least,no one can steal your happiness-it is yours to do with as you please.
To embrace happiness,you must first let go of misery.
Quoted from one book.
I do like the movie,Gone With The Wind starring the charming Omar Sharrif.
Yes, for me to happiness is a choice. Happiness can be learned. First, identify what are the things that can make you happy.Then,go for it.
The skill is very important you know, to ensure your excellent health. Healthy I mean, physically and emotionally. Ill soul can lead to the ill body.They are related.When your souls is sick it takes time sometimes to be cure depend how strong the person is.In some cases it never cure at all, as the result that particular person suffer emotional flaw.First and foremost you must let go your past.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Such a sad story..
On last Sunday I attended ‘Save The Palestinians’ Campaign organized by COMPLETE (Coalition of Malaysian NGOS Against Persecution of Paletinians).Among the speakers are Tun Dr. Mahathir Mohamad (former Prime Minister) and Dr. Chandra Muzaffar (President of JUST Movement).Sis Nurul Izzah (Lembah Pantai MP) and Malaysian artist Sheila Majid did show up to show their support.
What I concluded from the talk is that the war is not about religion.I mean between Hebrew people and Muslim but it is merely about OCCUPATION and SURVIVAL.It has nothing to do about religion.The Jews need a land for their survival,for their wellbeing, to ensure the continuity of their offspring .British promised to give the land to the Jews but at the end they’ve failed to deliver the promise. They made somebody else paid for their bill.The innocent Palestinians paid the price. Not for a month or short period of time but FOREVER.The Jews occupation of Palestine started 60 years ago and never ended until today.
I don’t have a heart to see the in the news, everyday,there will be someone who was dead.Blood is everywhere.School and building collapse as the result of explosive bomb.Chilren crying because of injuries and lost of their parents.This reality made me sick.I feel the pain also.This is the biggest abuse of human right and the biggest holocaust on earth.
However, please keep in mind that Palestinian is the most resilient and tough people. They won’t surrender. They won’t back off, even this war has to last for thousand years.They will never give up their very own land.Therefore, we also have to be consistent in supporting for their struggle and their fighting.Do your own part.The less you can do is pray.Please pray for your dear brothers and sisters.
What I concluded from the talk is that the war is not about religion.I mean between Hebrew people and Muslim but it is merely about OCCUPATION and SURVIVAL.It has nothing to do about religion.The Jews need a land for their survival,for their wellbeing, to ensure the continuity of their offspring .British promised to give the land to the Jews but at the end they’ve failed to deliver the promise. They made somebody else paid for their bill.The innocent Palestinians paid the price. Not for a month or short period of time but FOREVER.The Jews occupation of Palestine started 60 years ago and never ended until today.
I don’t have a heart to see the in the news, everyday,there will be someone who was dead.Blood is everywhere.School and building collapse as the result of explosive bomb.Chilren crying because of injuries and lost of their parents.This reality made me sick.I feel the pain also.This is the biggest abuse of human right and the biggest holocaust on earth.
However, please keep in mind that Palestinian is the most resilient and tough people. They won’t surrender. They won’t back off, even this war has to last for thousand years.They will never give up their very own land.Therefore, we also have to be consistent in supporting for their struggle and their fighting.Do your own part.The less you can do is pray.Please pray for your dear brothers and sisters.
Friday, January 9, 2009
Old friend is gold,the new one is silver..
Wanna go..don wanna go..anyway,it is very hard to refuse to your dear bestfriend whom you didn’t meet for quiet a long time.I miss her dearly.Today also her birthday.Shouldn’t let her down on her birthday I suppose.Okay, maybe this is the time for me to have a get away with my old buddies.We meet 8 years ago & this friendship still remain strong until today.Nowadays, it is very hard to find a true friend,so if you meet one,do take a good care of him/her and don’t let him/her go away.Keep in touch.
Kenapa org selalu amik pot pasal hal yg remeh temeh.Sy tidak,sy betul2 dah tak larat nk amik tau pasal hal yg tdk mendtgkan faedah & menambah dos ubat sakit kepala sy .Org nk wat ape,org nk jd ape biarlah diaorg.Itu hidup & mati dia,sy tarak mau msk campur.Sukatik dia la,dh hidup dia.Jgn kacau sy sudah.Cumanya kamu perlu jadi bijak sikit,kdg2 org suka bermain,mcm2 permainan.Kamu cuma perlu tau bezakan antara seorang jujur & seorang yg penipu.Sifat org yg munafik:
1)Bila berbalah dia melampau batasan
2)Bila bercakap dia menipu
3) Bila berjanji,dia mungkir janji
Jadi jauhilah org yg bersifat macam tu,pasti hidup kamu akan aman sikit.That’s all.Hidup kamu adalah pilihan kamu.Kamu boleh pilih ape yg kamu nk jadi.Jika pilih utk bahagia,berbahagialah jadinya jika pilih sebaliknya maka akan jadi sebaliknyalah.Just you have to live life to the fullest.
Kenapa org selalu amik pot pasal hal yg remeh temeh.Sy tidak,sy betul2 dah tak larat nk amik tau pasal hal yg tdk mendtgkan faedah & menambah dos ubat sakit kepala sy .Org nk wat ape,org nk jd ape biarlah diaorg.Itu hidup & mati dia,sy tarak mau msk campur.Sukatik dia la,dh hidup dia.Jgn kacau sy sudah.Cumanya kamu perlu jadi bijak sikit,kdg2 org suka bermain,mcm2 permainan.Kamu cuma perlu tau bezakan antara seorang jujur & seorang yg penipu.Sifat org yg munafik:
1)Bila berbalah dia melampau batasan
2)Bila bercakap dia menipu
3) Bila berjanji,dia mungkir janji
Jadi jauhilah org yg bersifat macam tu,pasti hidup kamu akan aman sikit.That’s all.Hidup kamu adalah pilihan kamu.Kamu boleh pilih ape yg kamu nk jadi.Jika pilih utk bahagia,berbahagialah jadinya jika pilih sebaliknya maka akan jadi sebaliknyalah.Just you have to live life to the fullest.
Friday, January 2, 2009
Bye..bye..bye..
(Hey, Hey)
Bye, Bye, Bye
Bye, Bye...
Bye, Bye...
Oh, Oh..
I'm doin' this tonight,
You're probably gonna start a fight.
I know this can't be right.
Hey baby come on,
I loved you endlessly,
When you weren't there for me.
So now it's time to leave and make it alone
I know that I can't take no more
It ain't no lie
I wanna see you out that door
Baby, bye, bye, bye...
Bye Bye
Don't wanna be a fool for you
Just another player in your game for two
You may hate me but it ain't no lie,
Baby, bye, bye, bye...
Bye Bye
Don't really wanna make it tough,
I just wanna tell you that I had enough.
It might sound crazy,
But it ain't no lie,
Baby, bye, bye, bye
(Oh, Oh)
Just hit me with the truth,
Now, girl you're more than welcome to.
So give me one good reason,
Baby come on
I live for you and me,
And now I really come to see,
That life would be much better once you're gone.
I know that I can't take no more
It ain't no lie,
I wanna see you out that door
Baby, bye, bye, bye...
Bye Bye
Don't wanna be a fool for you
Just another player in your game for two
You may hate me but it ain't no lie,
Baby Bye, bye, bye...
Bye Bye
Don't really wanna make it tough,
I just wanna tell you that I had enough (ooh ooh)
It might sound crazy,
But it ain't no lie,
Baby, bye, bye, bye
I'm giving up I know for sure
I don't wanna be the reason for your love no more
Bye Bye
I'm checkin' out
I'm signin' off
Don't wanna be the loser and I've had enough
Don't wanna be your fool
In this game for two
So I'm leavin' you behind
Bye, bye, bye...
I don't wanna make it tough (wanna make it tough)
But I had enough
And it ain't no lie (Bye, bye baby...)
Bye, Bye
Don't wanna be a fool for you
Just another player in your game for two (I don't wanna be your fool)
But it ain't no lie
Baby bye, bye, bye...
Don't really wanna make it tough (don't really wanna make it tough),
I just wanna tell you that I had enough (that I had enough).
Might sound crazy,
But it ain't no lie,
Bye, bye, bye
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