The Healing 3 Words

Dear friends & readers,

Speak it as frequent as you can to your loved ones,for they are powerful words.I would like to practice it and see how it works.Now, go & say it,see the miracle it brings.

I’LL BE THERE

If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night,to take a sick child to hospital,or when your car has a broken down some miles from home,you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase ‘‘ill be there’’.Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give.When we are truly present for other people,important things happen to them and us.We are renewed in love and friendship.We are restored emotionally and spiritually.Being there is at the very core of civility.

I MISS YOU

Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other “I miss you’’.This powerful affirmation tell partners they are wanted,needed,desired and loved.Consider how ecstatic you would feel,if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of workday just to say “I miss you”.

I RESPECT YOU

Respect is another way of showing love.Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal.If you talk to your children as if they were adilts you will strengthened the bonds and become close friends.This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

MAYBE YOU’RE RIGHT

This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions.The flip side to “maybe you’re right’’ is the humility of admitting “maybe I’m wrong”.Let’s face it.When you have a heated argument with someone ,all you do is cement the other point of view.They,or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you and them.Saying “maybe you’re right’’ can open the door to further explore the subject,in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rationale manner.

PLEASE FORGIVE ME

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit mistakes and ask for forgiveness.All of us are vulnerable to faults,foibles and failures.A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong ,which is saying,in other words,that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I THANK YOU

Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy.People who enjoy the companionship of good,close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted.They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness.On the other hands,people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

COUNT ON ME

Friend is one who walks in when others walk out.Loyalty is an essential ingredient for the true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people.Those that are rich in their relationship tend to be steady and true friends.When troubles come,a good friends is there indicating you can “count on me”.

LET ME HELP

The best of friends see a need and try to fill it.When they spot a hurt they do what they can do to heal it without being asked,they pitch in and help.

I UNDERSTAND YOU

People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them.Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them in so many little ways that you understand them is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship.

I LOVE YOU

Perhaps the most important 3 words that you can say.Telling someone that you can say.Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person’s deepest emotional needs;the need to belong,to feel appreciated and to be wanted.Your family,your friends and you,all need to need to hear 3 little words. “I love you” when spoken or conveyed,these statements have the power to forge new friendships,deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled.These 3 phrases can enrich every relationships.Use them!

Luna: sometimes people just want to hear those words.You may not know how important of those word to them.