Men are from Mars,Women Are From Venus

Want to know something.Kawan aku kadang2 ada tanya nape ko selalunya cool je,contonhya bila naik kete dgn lelaki,dia sesat jalan & bawak meronda2 dulu ke mana ntah.Tak pernah lak aku nk marah2 & membebel.I must said that, you must understand men’s character.Dulu aku pun macam tu gak,kalau dh sesat tu mulalah tak senang,mesti nak soh orang tu turun pegi tanya orang.Tetapi,percayalah lelaki selalunya takkan turun dulu.Dia akan pusing2 cari sampai dapat dulu,kalau dh tak jumpa sgt baru dia akan tanya org.Aku dah biasa.

Sy membaca buku psikologi yer tentang lelaki.From the books Men are from Mars,Women Are From Venus: men value power,competency, efficiency,and achievement.To look capable and competence is very useful to them.Jika sesat sekejap pun biar je,let him solve the problem.He is a man,he wanna look capable in front of you girls.

To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn’t know what to do or that he can’t do it on his own.Men are very touchy about this ,because the issue of competence is so very important to them.

Sekarang sy sudah faham sbb tu sy malas nk ckp banyak.Kalau ko membebel dan bagi suggestion ingat diaorng leh terima ke.Memburukkan keadaan jer karang.Mulalah akan berperang mulut.Keadaan akan mejadi tegang pulak.Dia mesti nk settle cara dia jugak.So lebih baik diam & tengok jer cara dia selesaikan.Diaorang kalau mmg betul2 perlukan pertolongan dia akan minta nnti.Selagi dia belum minta tu maknanya dia masih ok & boleh settle sendiri.So relaks dan tengokkan je dulu.Perempuan lain mesti tak setuju dgn cara aku ni.Hahahaha..Mesti tau bila masanya patut bersuara dan bila masa tidak.Bukannya aku jenis yg diam jer.